If you are married I am sure you recall the proposal. Did your beloved get down on bended knee and pledge their undying love to you? Or did your significant other hire a plane to write the words “Will you marry me?” in the sky?
My husband proposed to me in a silly way, which is typical of him. He’s very sweet, charming and have a fabulous sense of humor.
One evening we were heading out to dinner. We were sitting in the front seat of his car ready to leave when my husband (then boyfriend) said he bought me a present. He handed me something wrapped in wrapping paper. I opened it to discover it was a Barrel of Monkeys. That was one of my most favorite games when I was a little girl. It was very sweet of him to remember that. It showed that he listened to what I said and took things to heart.
My husband happened to notice that the barrel was open. He was concerned that some of the monkeys were missing. He suggested that count to make sure all the monkeys were there. I opened the barrel and took out the monkeys as I counted them. At the bottom of the barrel, hooked onto one of the monkey “arms” was an engagement ring!
I said “yes” and we married ONE WEEK later (eloped). Today (February 2nd) we celebrated the 16th anniversary of our first date. On October 18th of this year we will celebrate our 16th wedding anniversary. 🙂
Asking someone for their hand in marriage is a big deal. If you are planning on proposing to the love of your life you’ve probably given it a lot of thought.
As you contemplate your proposal, what images come to mind? Jumbotrons are over-the-top and definitely a gamble, beaches are cliché and flash mobs require a lot of planning – not to mention cardiovascular endurance.
Sometimes actions speak louder than words. Do you know what message you’re sending? Let’s break it down.
– Jumbotron: The only way I feel confident in getting a ‘yes’ is by putting you on the spot in front of thousands of people. This is how I approach important decisions. When we discuss when to have our first child, expect to do so in front of my parents at the Thanksgiving table.
– Beach: Everything I know about love, I learned from watching The Bachelor. This bodes well for our future, don’t you think?
– Flash Mob: I love you, dear, but I am equally in love with myself. This flash mob is my chance at viral glory and you better believe it’s going on YouTube within the next ten minutes. I’ve already advised the camera man on which is my good side. Can you believe I planned all this? Your friends will all think I’m *SO* thoughtful, right? I mean, you’ll tell me what they say, right? Right?? I will also be hiring a choreographer for our theoretical bridal party, just a heads up.
Let’s be real. Your life together will surely be happy and fulfilling, but it probably won’t match the grandeur implied by such an ostentatious proposal. What does that REALLY say about you anyway?
Want to show your special someone that you are high-quality, yet accessible? That you are dependable and fantastic? Let’s just say it: It’s better in the Outback. In fact Outback Steakhouse is helping 3 lucky Facebook fans plan the perfect proposal dinner with a contest this Valentine’s Day.
To enter visit www.Facebook.com/Outback. “Like” the page and then following the instructions to enter the contest.
HURRY! The contest ends on February 3, 2012.
Even if you aren’t ready to propose yet, what better way to celebrate the most romantic day of the year than with a special dinner for two? In fact, right now Outback is offering NEW Sirloin & Seafood Mixed Grill, a signature sirloin paired with seasoned and seared shrimp and scallops on a bed of freshly diced mango salsa for $12.99.
Forget flowers – I’d love to have a Bloomin’ Onion instead. 🙂
If you’d like to find an Outback restaurant near you visit www.Outback.com. You can also visit www.Outback.com/Love for more information about the special Valentines Day dinner promotion.
Kimberly
*I will be receiving a free gift certificate to do a review in the near future. There was no compensation. The opinions expressed are my own and are not influened in any way.