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Three “must see” films from IndieFlix for Education


I cannot imagine having to home school a child during this crazy time in our world’s history. My own kids are young adults in their early 20’s. I work with students from 4th – 9th grade in an after school program (back when we had school). It was hard enough getting them to do their daily homework, let alone an entire day’s worth of class work.

I’m impressed by how teachers and schools across the country were able to come up with an online curriculum for students so quickly. From what I have heard from people that work in our school district, the online schooling is working out pretty well.

Many teachers and schools have offered parents a plethora of resources to assist their children with their online classroom learning.

If you are a teacher, or know of one, I’d like to offer another resource – IndieFlix for Education.

IndieFlix for Education offers a film based social emotional learning curriculum that inspires positive action, personal revelation and social change for all ages.

IndieFlix provides social emotional learning experiences that has a long and lasting measurable impact. Their social-impact, film-based programs, and accompanying pre-recorded and live panel discussions, activities, resources, tips and tools provide up to 24 weeks of experiential learning appropriate for ages 10-100. They’ve hosted over ten thousand screening programs in schools, corporations and communities across more than 85 countries.

Some companies that have utilized IndieFlix films include Google, Starbucks, HP, Best Buy, ParentMap, and Microsoft. Some schools that have used their films include Johns Hopkins University, Berkeley, Stanford and the University of Michigan.

I had the opportunity to screen three of their films that are current available – Angst, Like and The Upstanders.

I love documentaries. I always have. I think it’s a wonderful way to learn about things you might not otherwise know about. I also think they help me do well when answering Jeopardy questions (ha ha).

I’m an adult, and I truly enjoyed the three films that I watched. Each one was very “eye opening.” I learned a lot from watching them. I most especially liked the one entitled Like. 

Below are my thoughts about each of the films. I will also include a trailer for each film for your enjoyment.



“Angst” by definition means anxiety or a feeling of dread. I can totally relate to the feeling of anxiety, as I’m sure many people can with what is going on in the world right now (COVID-19).

I suffer from anxiety, but not that bad. It’s more so situational rather than an on going thing. My husband gets anxiety in large crowds. He actually got anxiety so bad once recently that he had a panic attack while grocery shopping (he’s so worried about catching the virus). Our son and daughter also have anxiety. I guess to some degree it could be inherited. Our son’s anxiety used to get so bad he would twist the hair right off of his head.

This film explores what causes people to feel anxiety, what it’s like to feel anxiety, and what can be done to deal with it. Throughout the film you’ll see interviews with children and adults about their anxiety and what they are doing to deal with it.

The film also provides viewers with some tools and resources that can help you if you are dealing with anxiety.

I like that they included people of all ages, and didn’t focus on just one age group. Anxiety knows no age boundaries.

Some people have anxiety that is easily managed, whereas other people suffer from it at a much deeper level.

You don’t have to have anxiety to appreciate this film. Even if you don’t know anyone personally who suffers from anxiety (that you know of), the film provides you great insight into this emotion that could help you better understand someone in the future.



Like is the film that I identified the most with. This film was very “eye-opening” to say the least.

In this day and age, most everyone has a smart phone. Let’s face it, a smart phone is an amazing piece of technology. You can use it to help you with directions to your destination. You can instantly connect with family and friends from around the globe. You can watch a movie during your train commute to work in the morning. The benefits of having a smart phone are tremendous…but…there is a downside to technology.

Our daughter is 23 years old and her phone is her lifeline. A few years ago she was grounded, and we took her phone away (we pay for it while she’s in college). SHE HAD A FIT! She was hyperventilating and ranting and raving like a lunatic. It was actually scary how she was acting – over a phone! Since that day, my husband refers to her phone as her life support. Sadly, he’s not far from the truth. That damn phone is stuck to her hand 24/7. She falls asleep with it.

I have to admit that I go on my phone a lot, but I can also put it aside for hours and never glance at it.

I like to use my phone to go on Facebook to connect with my family and friends. I use Instagram and Twitter for my blog, and Pinterest to find craft ideas for my “work kids.” I recently go on Tik Tok because I find some of the videos amusing – basically it’s mindless entertainment.

I use social media for blogging and to connect with people, which is great. It’s a positive thing. But I also know first hand the downside of it all. Here is just one example…

A few years ago I was scrolling on Facebook when I saw photos of my three best friends from my childhood. The three of them went out together to visit a local castle on a small island. They had a fun day together. The problem was I wasn’t with them! They never thought to invite me to go along with them. They were my BEST FRIENDS! One I knew since we were six years old.

That broke my heart. I was so upset and depressed about it for weeks. I unfriended all of them from social media. I figured if they didn’t want to include me, why should I continue to follow them on social media to see more photos of them having fun together?


Another downside is “likes” and comments on social media. It’s hurtful when you post something on Instagram (for example) and get only a few likes, but when I go to other blogger’s accounts, they have hundreds of likes and thousands of more followers than I do.

Social media has a way of making people feel bad about themselves. Smart phones and social media also turn people into mindless zombies that don’t know how to connect with other people in real life. It’s sad to see people on the streets looking at their phones and not each other. Is that the kind of world we should be living in? I don’t think so.

In my family we have a strict no phones at the dinner table policy. Even if we go out to eat, we are not allowed to look at our phones. That is family time.

This documentary takes a look at how this technology and social media has an effect on our lives, as well as the effect is has on our brains. It also makes you aware of the “dark side” to all of it.

The Upstanders 


The Upstanders is a film about bullying, especially cyber-bullying. Although a lot is being done is schools to help prevent bullying, cyber-bullying is a whole different beast.

This film features a story about a young man who was being bullied, including cyber-bullied. His family was unaware of how bad it was. It was so bad that the young man saw no other option but to commit suicide.

This film goes into depth about bullying and cyber-bullying among friends, co-workers and others. It also explores the brain science behind it.

The film also discusses programs that are in place to help put an end to this epidemic, and talks about what we/you can do to make a change to stop bullying and cyber-bullying once and for all.

I think this film is important for all students to see in effort to make them aware of how one mean comment can deeply effect another person, and how we all just need to learn to be nice to one another.

Like my mom always said, “If you have nothing nice to say, don’t say anything at all.”

All three of these films are about an hour long.

Screen shot from the film “Like.”

If you are interested in learning more about these films, or other titles by IndieFlix For Education, visit IndieFlix.com. Once on the home page, click on “IndieFlix for Education” on the top right side of the screen.

They can also be found on Facebook and Twitter. Those links are found on the bottom of their website.

IndieFlix.com offers a variety of films including romance, comedy, thrillers, action and adventure and more. It’s a subscription service ($4.99/mo), but they do offer some free to view titles.

IndieFlix can be viewed in a variety of ways including ROKU, FireTV, iTunes, Android, AppleTV and more.

Right now IndieFlix.com is offering a FREE 7-day trial.

What do you think about these three films? Would you be interested in watching any of them? If so, which one(s)? Feel free to comment and share your thoughts. I always love to hear from readers.


*I received free screeners in order to watch these films. There was no compensation. The opinions expressed are my own and not influenced in any way. 

Spring, Easter, Earth Day, Oh My! Spring Books from Simon & Schuster Children’s Publishing


Spring is just around the corner, and we want you to celebrate all the wonderful springtime festivities with Simon & Schuster Children’s Publishing! With stories perfect for St. Patrick’s Day, Easter, Earth Day—or just the blooming of springtime, celebrate the return of warm weather with a seasonal read.

Below are some wonderful books for different age groups and reading levels.

I am posting this information for the enjoyment of site readers. I was not asked to post this information, nor was I compensated for this post.


By Yu-Husan Huang

1/28/20 | ISBN 9781534451773 | Ages Up to 4

A little chick looks for mama in this adorable, springtime peek-a-boo book that has soft, felt touch-and-feel flaps throughout.


By Charles M. Schulz, Illustrated by Vicki Scott

12/10/19 | ISBN 9781534460164 | Ages 2-5

Go on a sunny-day adventure with Snoopy’s BFF in this Woodstock-shaped board book with fuzzy flocking on the cover inspired by Charles M. Schulz’s Peanuts comics.


By Tomie dePaola

1/28/20 | ISBN 9781534460560 | Ages 2-5

From New York Times bestselling author and illustrator Tomie dePaola comes an adorable springtime story about fifteen bunnies who are planting a garden.


By Tomie dePaola

1/28/20 | ISBN 9781534460584 | Ages 2-5

From New York Times bestselling author and illustrator Tomie dePaola comes an adorable story about little lambs getting their spring haircuts.


By Alexandra Cassel Schwartz, Illustrated by Jason Fruchter

3/3/20 | ISBN 9781534455559 | Ages 3-7

Come along with Daniel as he finds an anthill, gathers sticks for a bird’s nest, and even discovers that some lizards can change colors. This charming board book celebrates wonder and exploration and teaches little ones to value the world around them. Based on the Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood.

New Easter classics for your budding reader’s first Easter.


By Salina Yoon

1/28/20 | ISBN 9781534443440 | All Ages

A hop-py bunny prepares for the perfect Easter celebration in this adorable Easter Wag My Tail novelty book from award-winning creator Salina Yoon. Help Bunny wag her fluffy cottontail whenever she finds a new egg.


By Patty Michaels, Illustrated by Clair Rossiter

1/28/20 | ISBN 9781534453883 | Ages 2-5

Celebrate all things Easter with fantastic Crayola colors in this adorable board book that’s shaped like an Easter egg. Kids are sure to laugh out loud at this fun shaped board book celebrating Easter. From vivid violet Easter eggs to yellow baby chicks, it will put readers in the Easter spirit.


By Natalie Shaw

1/28/2020 | ISBN 9781534453227 | Ages 3-7

Go into the night to save the Easter egg hunt with Catboy, Owlette, and Gekko in this 8×8 storybook based on PJ Masks, the hit preschool series airing on Disney Junior. This book includes a sheet of stickers.


By Charles M. Schulz, Illustrated by Scott Jeralds

1/28/2020 | ISBN 9781534454798 | Ages 5-7

It’s almost Easter and Snoopy is exhausted. He still has lots of eggs to color and hide. When Lucy recommends that the Easter Beagle take a break, it’s up to the Peanuts Gang to color and hide all the eggs. Everyone wants to help, but are they up to the task? Get ready for Easter with Snoopy and the Peanuts gang in this special Level 2 Ready-to-Read.

Teach kids the importance of preserving our planet with these Earth Day titles.


By Jeanette Winter

1/24/2019 | ISBN 9781534467781 | Ages 3-8

Learn the story of TIME PERSON OF THE YEAR Greta Thunberg, the sixteen-year-old climate activist who has sparked a worldwide student movent and is demanding action from world leaders who refuse to address climate change—from acclaimed picture book creator Jeanette Winter.


By Jonah Winter, Illustrated by Jeanette Winter

3/31/2020 | ISBN 9781534430778 | Ages 4-8

Mother-son team Jonah Winter and Jeanette Winter tell the story of the Exxon Valdez oil spill and its devastating and lingering effects in this poetic and timely picture book.


By Laurie Calkhoven, Illustrated by Monique Dong

3/3/20 | ISBN 9781534456464 | Ages 6-8

Meet the environmentally-minded kids who are coming up with ways to save the planet in this fascinating nonfiction Level 3 Ready-to-Read, part of a series of biographies about people “you should meet.” A special section at the back of the book includes extras such as biographies of famous young environmental activists plus interesting ideas for other ways that kids can save the environment.


By Jordan D. Brown

3/3/20 | ISBN 9781534457225 | Ages 5-7

When Jet learns that humans celebrate Earth Day, he can’t help but wonder, why can’t every day be Earth Day? After he takes his friends for an amazing ride around the world in his flying saucer, they feel the same way. This Level 2 Ready-to-Read is based on a popular episode of PBS’s hit show Ready Jet Go! and includes bonus back matter content with lots of fun facts about the Earth and Earth Day.

Encourage hands-on appreciation of nature with these picture books on gardening and exploration.


By Tim McCanna, Illustrated by Aimée Sicuro

2/18/20 | ISBN 9781534417977 | Ages 4-8

Acclaimed author Tim McCanna celebrates gardens, nature, and all sorts of critters in this delightful and vibrant read-aloud picture book. Bonus backmatter features tons of cool facts about ecosystems and the symbiosis between plants and bugs.


By Liz Garton Scanlon, Illustrated by Simone Shin

3/3/20 | ISBN 9781481403504 | Ages 3-7

A community garden unites children and neighbors in this celebration of all the things that grow there, from flowers and fruits to friendships. In the spirit of her Caldecott Honor­winning picture book All the World, this ode to friendship, community, and working together for a better world will have young readers gathering their friends young and old to plant something together.


By Dianne White, Illustrated by Felicita Sala

3/17/20 | ISBN 9781481462785 | Ages 4-8

A child is on a colorful journey through the seasons, filled with yellow flowers and blue coral in spring and summer and orange pumpkins and green pine forests in fall and winter. All the while, there is another colorful change on the horizon—the birth of a new sibling. Discover the joys of nature, seasons, family—and the vibrant colors of them all—in this lyrical picture book from the author of the acclaimed Blue on Blue.

Celebrate nature and its gifts with these wildlife-focused picture books.


By April Pulley Sayre

2/4/20 | ISBN 9781534428812 | Ages 3-8

From award-winning author and photographer April Pulley Sayre comes a stunning photographic look at the fascinating lives of frogs.


By Jorey Hurley

1/7/20 | ISBN 9781481470032 | Ages 3-7

Acclaimed author Jorey Hurley shows us how bees make and store honey in this bold and graphic picture book with just one word on each page and the vivid illustrations Jorey Hurley is known for. Detailed backmatter further explains this fascinating natural process.


By Benjamin Scheuer, Illustrated by Jemima Williams

2/11/20 | ISBN 9781534432192 | Ages 4-8

Guess How Much I Love You meets Someday in this gentle read-aloud picture book that shows us that with just the right amount of care and support, even the smallest of seeds can grow to stand one hundred feet tall. A tender ode to the power of unconditional, immutable love.


By Sarah Dillard

3/3/20 | ISBN 9781534406780 | Ages 4-8

A little rabbit discovers the delight in a dreary rainy day in this splashing sequel to the witty and whimsical picture book, I Wish it Would Snow.


By Julie Fogliano, Illustrated by Loren Long

5/7/19 | ISBN 9781481472432 | Ages 4-8

Through clever, thought-provoking verse and warmly evocative art, New York Times bestsellers Julie Fogliano and Loren Long explore the awe-inspiring nature of relationships, love, and connection.


By Verlie Hutchens, Illustrated by Jing Jing Tsong

3/5/19 | ISBN 9781481447072 | Ages 4-8

Every tree has its own story to tell in this evocative collection of poems celebrating the many varieties—from maple to willow to oak.


By Ben Lerwill, Illustrated by Sarah Walsh

2/4/20 | ISBN 9781534454842 | Ages 8 and up

From the illustrator of Herstory (a Publishers Weekly Best Book of 2018) comes a fascinating and touching book about fifty extraordinary animals that made human history. 


By Marilyn Singer, Illustrated by Lucy Semple

1/21/20 | ISBN 9781534441392 | Ages 3-5

Come see bugs of all different kinds dipping, sipping, crawling, calling, and so much more in this charming, rhyming book that includes a special section with facts on each type of bug. Award-winning author Marilyn Singer takes us on a journey into the fascinating and colorful world of bugs in this Pre-Level 1 Ready-to-Read.



By Tina Gallo

12/10/19 | ISBN 9781534452947 | Ages 3-5

All aboard! Tiny and her friends learn about flowers in this Ready-to-Go! Ready-to-Read based on Jim Henson’s Dinosaur Train. Perfect for kids at the beginning of their reading journeys, Tiny’s New Flowers was written for children who have learned the alphabet and are ready to start reading, And what better way to get kids excited than with a fun story with words they can actually read, starring their favorite dinosaurs?

Chapter Book Adventures for Springtime.


By Megan Frazer Blakemore, Illustrated by Nadja Sarell

2/18/20 | ISBN 9781534430525 | Ages 7-10

It’s springtime in Ms. Cupid’s class, and the entire class is excited to build their very own leprechaun traps. Maybe, if they catch one, they will all get the gift of good luck. This is the fourth chapter book in the STEM inspired Frankie Sparks, Third-Grade Inventor series.


By Mary Peterson

3/24/20 | ISBN 9781534431850 | Ages 6-9

Chuckle your way through this easy-to-read illustrated chapter book about a snail who’s looking for a new place to hang his shell.


By Joe McGee, Illustrated by Ethan Long

4/7/20 | ISBN 9781534436824 | Ages 7-10

A rainstorm gets out of hand and it’s up to the Junior Monster Scouts to save The Village from washing away in the hilarious third chapter book of the Junior Monster Scouts series.

Middle grade nonfiction for the young environmentalist:


By Valentina Camerini, Illustrated by Veronica Carratello

11/26/19 | ISBN 9781534468771 | Ages 8-12

The inspiring true story of Greta Thunberg, a young eco-activist whose persistence sparked a global movement. A chapter book biography that will teach young readers that you are never too young to make a difference.



By P. O’Connell Pearson

10/8/19 | ISBN 9781534429321 | Ages 10 and up

In an inspiring middle grade nonfiction work, P. O’Connell Pearson tells the story of the Civilian Conservation Corps—one of Franklin Delano Roosevelt’s New Deal projects that helped save a generation of Americans.

I hope that you’ll find some great books on this list that you would like to add to your family’s library.


*I was not compensated for this post. I posted this for the enjoyment of my readers. 

Gift some fun and educational books from National Geographic Kids this holiday season


Are you still looking for gifts for your child?

I know that many parents try and get the “it” toys of the season for their child (or grandchild). That is fine and all, but there is a type of gift that is ideal for gift giving, whether it’s for the holidays, a birthday, or “just because” – BOOKS!

When I was a child I LOVED books. I could not get enough of them. I loved receiving books as a gift. I amassed a nice collection of books, many of which I still have. I kept a lot of my favorite books from my youth to share with my own children, and someday, my future grandchildren.

I loved to read all types of books – fiction, non-fiction, horror, comedy, drama, book series – you name it. I even enjoyed reading educational books. One of my favorite types of books to read were encyclopedias. I know that might sound a bit unusual, but I honestly enjoyed it.

Educational books are not boring. It just depends in the book that you read. Take for example National Geographic Kids books. I have been a fan of their books for many years. Not only are they filled with a lot of great information and facts about just about everything on Earth (and even space), but they are also filled with a lot of great facts.

I’m a smart person. I do very well when we watch Jeporady. That is because I know a little bit about a lot of things. Many National Geographic Kids books are a great way to let your child learn a little bit about a lot of things (that is a GOOD thing).

If you are considering gifting a child books this holiday season, here are some suggestions from National Geographic and National Geographic Kids.

I was sent a few of these books to review.

Nerd A to Z: Your Reference to Literally Figuratively Everything You’ve Always Wanted to Know (ages 8-12, $14.99)

“You don’t have to be a nerd to be captivated by this combination of Guinness Book of World Records, Ripley’s Believe It or Not, and short form encyclopedia…..the info blurbs are fun to know and in many instances educational.  A bushel of inviting, idiosyncratic subjects” – Kirkus

“VERDICT A treat for visually oriented and information-hungry browsers.” – School Library Journal

This super-stuffed alphabetical compendium of must-know facts from science, pop culture, history, and more is perfect for kids who already know the names of every single dinosaur or want to understand exactly how the Millennium Falcon works. It’s a book for grammar gurus, science snobs, music geeks, and history buffs. In short, it’s a book for nerds. Inside, you’ll find browsable, info-packed blurbs that’ll give you the lowdown on everything from augmented reality to zydeco, with larger features that dive deep into fascinating topics like UFOs, pirates, artificial intelligence, and daring circus acts. And you’ll hear from the world’s most notable (and quotable) Nerds of Note from history and today.

As I mentioned earlier, I know a lot about a lot of things. This book is the prime example of ways your child can be the same way.

This book covers a huge assortment of topics on just about everything you can possibly think of.

There are even fun tests you can take to find out what kind of “nerd” you really are.

I’m an adult, and I found this book extremely interesting. I learned a lot from it myself.

The book is filled with colorful photos and illustrations that bring this book to life.

The Book of Bling: Ritzy Rocks, Extravagant Animals, Sparkling Science and More! (ages 8-12, $19.99)

“Bling is all around us,” the author writes. Maybe so…but rarely is the razzle-dazzle this cranked up. Should come with a cautionary note: sunglasses a must!” – Kirkus

From upscale splurges to flashy fun in nature, this treasure trove is filled with wonders that will dazzle and delight. Read about how nature struts its stuff with tantalizing tidbits about animals, including a few that literally glitter with iridescence to confuse predators. Or maybe you’ll strike it rich after reading about Crater of Diamonds State Park in Arkansas, U.S.A., where anyone can go hunt for sparkling gems. Dig into info about the world’s mysterious minerals, gorgeous geodes, and ritzy rocks. Discover extravagant expenditures like Canada’s million-dollar solid gold coin. Learn all about the splendid science of diamonds that rain from the sky in space. Get the secret behind glowing bio-luminescence. And go back in time to uncover palatial palaces, the riches of royalty, and other ancient treasures. To show off the lush content in proper fashion, readers will be dazzled by hundreds of fun flashy photos throughout.

This is a fun book about everything that glitters, shines and costs $$$.

I love the sections on the world’s richest animals, as well as the section on “cursed” jewelry that you should never touch. The section on gems and jewelry is pretty extensive.

The cat, “Grumpy Cat,” made it into the book as one of the world’s richest animals.

I like that angle this book takes. Would would have thought about writing a book all about rich, fancy, sparkly things around the world.

Treasury of Bible Stories written by Donna Jo Napoli, illustrated by Christina Balit (ages 8-12, HC, $24.99)

“Napoli brings her literary eye to yet another ancient tradition.  Balit’s bold illustrations accompany each tale and feature a diversity of skin tone that reflects the many lands from northeast Africa to the Middle East where the drama unfolds… Sidebars throughout add historical and scientific context to the stories presented while backmatter includes maps, timelines, and brief biographies of the major players. A worthy cultural treasury with appeal to both the faithful and irreligious.” — Kirkus

Noah’s Ark, Moses, David and Goliath, the ten plagues, Daniel and the lions’ den, Jonah and the giant fish, and many more of the Bible’s most powerful stories — 27 in all — are compellingly retold in this beautifully illustrated treasury. Readers will be fascinated by the ancient people and events they encounter, surprised by some of the lesser known accounts revealed, and inspired by the lessons these tales impart. Stories cover important ground beyond religion, such as culture, history, and geography, and they touch on issues that remain relevant today–faith, loyalty, kindness, violence, generosity, greed, jealousy, and more. These accessible, readible stories give kids a rich picture of biblical times, which encourages them to think about our role in the world and to learn more.

Dream Journal by Dr. Allan Peterkin (ages 8-12, $12.99 )

This stocking stuffer is what dreams are made of — literally!  Professor of Psychiatry Dr.Allan Peterkin helps readers uncover the power of their dreams and better understand the science of sleep. With lively text, vibrant imagery, and plenty of space for writing, it’s the perfect tool to help kids remember, record, and reflect on their nighttime adventures.  Catching Z’s has never been so much fun!

Brain Candy: Seriously Sweet Facts to Satisfy Your Curiosity – (ages 8-12, $8.99)

This offbeat, “stocking-sized” book is like a sweet treat that will satisfy any reader’s fun fact cravings. Cranium “cavities” will be filled to the brim with 500 fascinating knowledge nuggets about numbers, fun facts, and cool trivia on all kinds of topics.  With features that dive into why potatoes and tomatoes are a dynamic duo, amazing animal tongues and how they are used to ”lick” their competition and dental care through the ages, Brain Candy is a tasty approach to feeding kids tantalizing tidbits about the world.

This is another fascinating book filled with interesting facts.

I like how the facts are grouped by subject, such as size, heat, speed, numbers and more.

As with all National Geographic books, this book is overflowing with interesting and useful information, as well as beautiful, colorful photos and illustrations.

Any of these books would make a great gift for that special child in your life. To be honest, I think even grown-ups would appreciate these awesome books.

You can find these great books and more on the Shop National Geographic website. You can also find these books at book retailers such as Amazon and Barnes & Noble.

Does your child/grandchild own any National Geographic and/or National Geographic Kids books?

Do you think your child/grandchild would like any of the books mentioned above? If so, which one(s)?


*I received free product samples to review. There was no compensation. The opinions expressed are my own and not influenced in any way. 

Confidence Boosters For All


It is perfectly natural to go through a low period where you feel less than tip-top. Life tends to throw obstacles in the way, and over time, if you do not correctly deal with them, this could lead to a mini-depression or merely a sense of low self-worth. When this happens to you, you need to remember that most people, if not all people suffer from hard times at some point, but luckily that also means that there are many tried and tested ways to build your self-esteem back up and get you feeling like your old self again:

Identify the negatives 

We all do things that are not good for our health. Whether it’s spending too much time on social media comparing our lives to the highlights offered by fake friends, or smoking, or drinking too much alcohol. There is always something that can be identified as detrimental to mental and physical health. So, it may be worth your while creating a list of things that you know you should cut out. Next to this, you could make a parallel list of possible solutions, like visiting a drug addiction treatment center, for example. If you can identify what’s wrong, you can work on fixing it.

Exchange the negatives with positives

What is it that you could do that would make yourself happy? Is it changing a negative mindset? Simply swapping bad internal talk for good inner talk, by becoming aware of your thoughts, by being more mindful. So, basically, the moral is, be kinder to yourself to change your outlook on yourself. Don’t dwell on mistakes, as we all make them, learn from them and move forward armed with the knowledge of experience. In addition, is there something you have always wanted to do with your life, some skill you wish to learn or enhance? Maybe you have always wanted to write poetry, well, why not join a local creative writing class. Not only will you learn something, but you will also meet new like-minded people. If you spend time improving yourself in the way you want, then you will find you have more confidence in your daily life.


Stop making excuses for not putting on those running shoes and just go out there and do it. You need to do some exercise every day to lose weight, feel better and become more confident. Once you get the exercise bug, you will find it easy to fit it into your daily routine. As with anything new, it’s only challenging to begin with.


Embrace change, don’t fear it. Often people do whatever it takes not to change and will actually fight against it, but really change is what they need, and it can be good for the heart and soul. It has the power to give you a brand new outlook and can open your mind to things you never thought you could think or do. Do something that scares you, like a skydive. You only live once. You do not want to regret never having lived.

Starting A Home-Based Fashion Business Is Not Like Climbing A Mountain


A clothing business can be just about supplying all kinds of clothes for the average consumer, or it can be a very personal journey. It’s one of the most complex yet visually rewarding types of business in the world. You’re actually seeing people wear and share your products. Unlike other industries, your products will have an immediate effect on the culture of your nation and hopefully, the world. It’s not like a kitchen appliance like a blender, which you will never see being used. It’s not even like a banking app that may be used in public but the collective will never show it in unison. A fashion brand is visual, it’s able to be seen in the rest of the world. But do you need to hitch your wagon to a fashion brand? Do you need to beg and plead for the partnership of a multinational clothing line? No! You don’t have to do anything except being motivated to start your own fashion brand from home. You’ll need multiple skills but you can outsource much of your work. Be prepared to do a lot of business administration but never take your eye off the ball when it comes to the end product. 


Who are you?

The single most important question you need to ask yourself, is who are you? Clothes are incredibly expressive. They capture a mood, a feeling, a movement and a cultural phenomenon all in one. It’s vital that you’re able to decipher who you are into your clothing brand. In other words, what’s your niche? What kind of things are you interested in and how do they apply to your business? Maybe you would like to make a brand that captivates your personality in color schemes. Maybe you have always wanted to wear clothing that was a little more practical. It could even be that you want to design clothes for your body type and give women a similar figure more options. 

You need not follow the conventional route either. Maybe you don’t want to make clothes for women, perhaps you want to make clothes for men, babies or even pets. What inspires you? Look deep within yourself to find out why you want to start a fashion brand. The biggest concern for new brands is, not having a consistent and fully evolved narrative. So many young brands fade away because they set the tone and then don’t follow through on it. Knowing who you are, why you’re doing this and what kinds of designs you will have, will give your narrative firm grounding. In other words, you’ll find a niche and have enough substance to stick to it.


A budget justifies a plan

A business plan has to be costed. In other words, your plan is only valid when you have the funds to implement it. If you cannot financially justify your business plan, it’s not worth the paper it’s written on. Hence, you must value your budget over your plan. It’s difficult to accept this because your vision might be bigger than your bank account. On the other hand, Rome was not built in one day. You must start modest, and then slowly work your way up. Look on the bright side, you won’t become sidetracked and squander your money on things that cannot be fully developed. Instead, focus on what you need to begin. 

What is your budget for materials? How much are you willing to pay independent textile workers or factories? Will you save any money by doing things at home, such as sewing? What is your budget for marketing? Creating a budget will help you realize which constrains you. When you know what you can’t do, you’re better able to focus on the things that you can do. 


What’s the financial upside?

A business plan is something that can be long-winded or kept short and sweet. Some of the biggest businesses in the world started off with a business plan that only took into consideration, what the first year would be like. However, the financial upsides are perhaps the brightest candle on the cake In essence, what will the profits be for the first year? Many business plans openly admit that the cost of starting the business will mean that you will either lose money or just about break even. Many business plans will only claim profits in the 3rd or 4th year. This is why many small businesses die out before the fifth year even ends. They bit off more than they can chew and decided to walk before they could crawl. 

The return on investment (ROI) is the most important factor. For the amount of money you put into the business, what kinds of returns will you see for each financial quarter? The common line is, you’ll break even for the first two financial quarters and then make a profit during the festive season in the final 6 months. Adaptive production of your products is, therefore, highly crucial for your success. The more products you order from a manufacturing facility, the lower the overall costs will be. Thus, can you make more money by increasing prices during seasonal times together with lower material and production costs?


Laying the foundations of infrastructure

Every business has to have a solid internal foundation. Without proper infrastructure, your actions will be scattered and far from organized. Hence why you should immediately look for an IT Support Partner who can work on IT problems within 10 minutes of the error or fault occurring. No matter what kind of software for task management, inventory management or invoice payment you’re using, an IT support company is vital for making sure everything runs as expected. They will keep an eye out for all kinds of updates and patches for the software you’re using. They’ll also work with you, to improve the efficiency of the programs your business currently utilizes. 

Then you must consider what the building blocks for your infrastructure will be. Will you use Microsoft Office Suite? Adobe software packages? Perhaps you’ll want to integrate most of your office by using G Suite. It’s vital that you have a software infrastructure than can link all your departments and or areas of the business. Marketing should be linked with design, your manufacturing should be linked with logistics and your accounting should be linked back to your financial plan. When you have this level of integration, you can swap and compare the information of all kinds quickly and clearly.


Sourcing the materials

When you’ve completed your infrastructure design, sourcing materials is your next job. It’s not going to be a tough task because you will have a range of domestic suppliers to choose from. That’s the thing about the fashion industry, there is never a shortage of options for materials. Unlike the metal industry that might suffer from this, the choice of quality materials is never a big concern. Whether your business is in the UK, US or France, to name a few, you’ll never have to worry about the overall quality of materials like cotton, wool, leather, etc. However, it’s the pricing and contracts that are the difficult part to nail down. 

It’s in your best interest to attend an industry event to see what kind of options you have. Bring a simple pen and pad, to write down all the details you require. For each category what kind of materials do you need? For cotton, what kind of quality are you looking for and how much? What’s the price of cotton fabric per square meter? Will you be using synthetic materials? Would it be best to go to a synthetic textile plant or a trade show? Synthetics are of a lower quality to wool and cotton, but if they’re the mainstay of your products then you should inspect the material face-to-face. 

Styling and outsourcing

Bear in mind, most of your business will be home-based. So you need to be sure that you’re able to design and create your clothes. Every fashion brand will run into the challenge of designing, cutting, fitting and sizing for the general consumer. Thus, you must style your products in a way that will fit the national small, medium and large size categories. It’s best to hire an artist to draw the designs of your clothes as well as a fashion adviser that can label the materials used and the inspiration behind the design. 

Outsourcing from home has never been as easy as it is these days. However, you must be willing to meet your production company in person. There are lots of pros and cons of outsourcing in the fashion industry. The main thing you need to watch out for is communication problems. When something goes wrong, you need a relationship with the company so you can effectively communicate with them to correct errors. 

Becoming a home-based fashion brand is not easy but it’s not as high a mountain as it once was. There used to be a time when you had to go to fashion and or design school to work in the industry. These days, however, with good infrastructure, a great plan, and costed budget, all you need to focus on is design and production.